9/19/2023 0 Comments Nanny cam clockMy mom doesn’t correct her to her face because ‘we have to protect her feelings’ which is bull. It’s gotten to the point where if I talk to my mom, my sisters boyfriend, or my siblings about buying something for my room and she overhears she’ll go into a rant about how I ‘sleep on a bed of lies’ and I’m a thief because my grandparents ‘paid for everything in there’ even though they only got the basic furniture. Right after that she stopped telling people the truth that she left of her own accord and started telling all of our shared friends that she was forced to live with our bio dad and that I stole her room. Eventually my sister came back and was pissed when she found out my mom didn’t leave the room vacant and waiting for her even though at that point she’d lived with our bio dad for almost a year. and everything in the room is mine apart from the furniture that was there before. As soon as I started working at 15 I’d been the one to buy all my clothes, shoes, school supplies, hygiene products, etc. The only things still in there that were there before was the bed frame, mattress, dresser, and desk that my grandparents bought for the room. My sisters things were moved out and I brought my things in. When she left my mom told me I could have the room she slept in since I slept in the smallest room in the house before and had to sleep on the couch occasionally so a guest could have my bed whilst she had the biggest room with a queen bed and a nice closet all to herself that she never had to give up. Despite this (and other factors) my older sister told my mom she wanted to live with him and his girlfriend along with the girlfriends kids. Our biological dad had no parental rights over us, he even insisted to the courts we weren’t his and our mom had to get dna tests to prove it even though I look exactly like him. It hurt my mom and our stepdad a lot, my biological father was not a good husband (the nicest way of putting it) and my stepdad came into our lives and married our mom when I was 4 and my older sister was 6 and he’s always treated us like our step siblings and called us his daughters, so it took a toll on our family life balance when she started calling him by his first name instead of dad and treated him like he was the evil step parent from a Disney movie as soon as our bio dad showed up. I knew better than to just blindly forgive him but my sister did and fawned over him although he hadn’t been around since I was almost a year old and she was near three. About five years ago my biological father came back into my (now 19f) and my sister’s (now 21f) life when were 14 and 16.
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